I just getting a little pissed off with the government getting involved in the most stupidest issues on the planet.  Who cares about strippers or performers giving their clients lap dances!?  What is the big problem with that?  If the client starts to become hostile with the performer than that's a different story.  But the performer is willingly giving the person a lap dance to make money.  Why should the government get involved with something so harmless?

   Lap dances are something that is not sexual enough in my opinion to call porn or even explicit.  The client usually has their clothes on and are just enjoying the performers touch and attention they are getting usually from a good looking individual.  Ok, in some of these clubs where blow-jobs and other sexual acts are performed in the back rooms for more money may become a problem.  I don't agree with those sexual acts being performed for money in public.  But lap dances?  Let me say this one more time about the government…Go do something else more productive then worrying about stupid crap like this. 

     The one thing I don't like about this article is about Gonzales stating that Internet service providers must record their users activities so that they may prosecute certain people.  This is complete bullshit.  Now the government is starting to get out of control with this privacy issue.  Going into our homes trying to see what we are looking on the Internet is ridiculous.  Let me say again for the 100th time, so get some drug dealers and gangs off the streets instead of worrying about what people are looking at over the Internet, especially sites that have to do with sex.

    This has never been seen before in this country.  Normally this material is just not even bothered with as like a freedom to look at what you want.  But now they are saying that they need to crack down on this obscene material.  Now what is the reasoning to do all this?  Is it because they are afraid that the cd's would offend people if they got into the wrong hands or is it because they feel that the actions performed on these cd's could influence others to invoke doing these "obscene" things?

    Once again, lets not worry about pronography and lets worry about drugs and murders and all that important crimes.  Not about stupid obscene porn.  This is getting alittle ridiculous. 

   All this talk about myspace and facebook with kids showing too much about themselves and making it easy for sexual predators to step in.  Well i'm sorry but that's no ones fault but the parents.  If parents are letting their 14 yr old daughter put up pictures of themselves in bikini's and giving too much information on the internet about themselves…blame the parents!  These websites are for people to meet new people.  Yes, sometimes their are idiots on their who love getting with young girls but hey, the parents need to speak with their kids about it.  The government has no authority in this matter.  Leave everyone alone and let the parents do the job like they are supposed too.

 I think I was raised good, I know right from wrong when it comes to me; even at a young age.  This was due to the fact that I had good parents who communicated with me even on these dumb issues.  The internet is not a bad place for kids…they just need alittle guidance from their parents…not the government!

     I think this totally makes sense in both cases.  You can't have a city totally covered in Porn shops and adult theatres.  It would make the city look like a "shit" hole.  Porn shops and adult theatres aren't usually the things you see in the city that make the city look good.  More than likely they are the things in the city in which makes the city have a bad side.  Most theatres and porn shops aren't in the best condition and become an eye sore for the city.  Many cities get alot of money from tourists.  Most tourist are not attracted to the areas in which have porn shops or adult theatres.  I think the same thing should be applied to strip clubs.  It's fine to have them, but spread them apart throughout the city or keep them in their own little district.  This will keep the city from looking like a dirty town to the national audience.

    What you think is obscene doesn't necessarily mean that I think it is obscene.  We all need to realize that.  Then we have to think, what is going to be the mean to overrule the situation.  If I walk into a day care center and some guy is pulling down his pants in front of 3 yr olds.  Yea, that would be obscene to the majoirty of people.  But, porn in general or even sex in general.  Is that considered obscene?  My personal opinion about it is the only thing I can say. 

    Sex is not obscene, neither is pornography.  But maybe some ways you perform these 2 things may make them obscene.  Having sex with a person that is a decent age and in the privacy of your own home…is not Obscene.  But if you are having sex on the grass in a public park at noon, then yea, I would consider it Obscene.  Everyone knows their opinion on whether or not they think it is obscene or not.  So it's up to all of us to determine what is obscene or not.  We also need to respect the opinions of others.  If your not sure that someone may think something is obscene or not then you should be careful not to make that person feel uncomfortable.

By watching pornography you get to see the "professionals" do their job.  By watching you see how they perform and what they do.  Many men and women bring what they have seen in porn and brought it home with their partner and tried it out.  Watching porn will kind of make you realize the whole perspective on sex.  Different positions, trying different things that you have seen in a porno, I believe will help keep the relationship healthy and satisfying. 

In a normal relationship where two normal people have feelings for each other, I dont see why not.  Bring porn "ideas" into the relationship.  It makes things exciting.  Some things you need to see to even think of them.  What guy wouldn't mind their wife saying…"Wow, that was great, I never even thought of that"!  You look like a hero…all thanks to porn!

Doing something in the privacy of your own home that isn't hurting anyone, and also not hurting yourself should be nothing to be debatable about.  I just don't get it.  Just leave pornography alone and let it be.  Theres nothing wrong with it.  Lets worry about getting drugs off the streets and keeping sex offenders from commiting crimes again and not worry about porn and masturbation!